One of the nicest things about my marriage is the ease with which we
have been accepted as a couple. Avanthi commands a much higher standing
among my relatives than I do. And her relatives have been unstinting in
the love and affection they have lavished on me, something I am most
thankful about. More to the point, our respective friend circles have
not merely accepted but duly absorbed the other into them. And over time
we as a couple have befriended other couples. Sucharita Sengupta and
Adnan Farooqui are an instance. They both teach political science at the
Jamia Millia Islamia - bright, socially motivated, warm-hearted, and
generally terrific people to hang around with. Suchi and I share a
common interest in photography. She also happens to be distantly
related: her first cousin once removed married a first cousin to my
grandmother. So going by the nomenclature prevalent in India, that makes
her my aunt. Anyways, Auntie and husband had a wedding to attend at a
resort just outside Puri. Which was excellent news, because it had been a
while since I had met them. Then Adnan welshed out, so that left only
Suchi and self, since Avanthi and the little 'un were in Bangalore.
Even then we nearly didn't meet. Suchi's hosts had organised a bus for
her and other guests directly from Bhubaneswar airport. And another bus
to take them straight to the airport once the festivities concluded.
Which didn't exactly leave much bandwidth for meeting up. That's when I
had this splendid idea of taking a day's leave from the University,
borrowing Millan's car, picking up Suchi from the airport, showing her a
bit of Bhubaneswar and, eventually, driving her down to Puri. She
cheerfully fell in with the idea, Millan readily agreed to part with his
car for a day, and the rest of the plan fixed itself up almost by
default, as it were. [A word about Millan's car, now. It's a little Maruti 800, a bit long in the tooth, but well maintained. The engine especially is in good nick, certainly sound enough to sustain a day-long romp to the coast and back. I share an emotional relationship with it. When buying it he took me along; at that time he was not confident of handling the traffic around Badambadi. So I was the first person who drove it after the purchase. And Millan is most generous about lending it out. We have this informal arrangement: whenever I need it I let him know a day or two in advance, and if not inconvenient to him he happily chucks the keys over.]
The journey was delightful. Beautiful if slightly congested roads, the car behaving beautifully, and the sheer joy of catching up with a valued friend, all added up to yield a most memorable experience. We didn't take too many photographs, we had so much to talk about. Particularly foulmouthing our spouses, who had chosen to miss out on this wonderful experience. And besides I needed to keep an eye on the road and unruly traffic too. One picture I did take was of a minivan laden with bananas. Laden is too mild a term, it had bananas everywhere: crammed full on the inside, and then more on the roof, bunches stacked one on top of the other with long bits of stem curving up and outwards like so many improbably green-coloured flamingoes. It brought back memories of Belafonte's definitive 'Banana Boat Song': "Six-foot, seven-foot, eight-foot bunch!! / Daylight come and me wan' go home".
Konark was another delight. It was well past midday now, and fairly hot, but to the camera-obsessed, such considerations are at best peripheral. We spent the better part of two hours there.
This was followed by the most picturesque part of the journey. The East Coast Road connecting Konark and Puri is a dream. Beautifully maintained, largely bereft of traffic, and replete with interesting twists, it acts as a lure to local hotbloods bent on showing off their driving skills at high speeds, often with tragic consequence. But who would want to drive down such a picturesque road at high speed? And not take in the vast, untidy charm only mangrove patches can claim for their own? Or the pristine deserted stretches of beach interspersed between the mangrove clumps?
These beaches were so beautiful that at one point Suchi insisted we stop and take pictures. A wise choice, and a particularly attractive stretch of beach at that. I was charmed, but then in the last one year or so I had encountered plenty of beaches. The impact it had on Suchi, on the other hand, was nothing short of electrifying. She was thrilled, absorbed, engrossed, and she went beserk with her camera. So much so that she didn't realise she had gained an admirer. Woof! And any time I need to pull her leg, this is the photo I remind her of. It never fails, believe me.
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The rest of trip was uneventful. I dropped off Suchi at the wedding venue. We spent some time out there, once again spewing maledictions at our respective spouses for not joining us. I then set off for Cuttack, promising Suchi I'll be ever so careful. Not that she needed a whole lot of reassurance; the day's worth of driving had left her most appreciative of both car's and driver's capabilities. The car's behaviour all through the day was particularly remarkable, and fully justified the confidence reposed in it. At no point did it create the slightest fuss. On the return journey too it behaved magnificently, and ferried me home with aplomb. Which places me in a dilemma: should I let Suchi know it didn't have a spare tyre?








2 comments:
Hehe ... Very flattering. Not everyday someone writes a blog on you. Great writing, funny and accurate!
Many thanks Suchi :) We should do it again some time, this time with our SOs too.
And whoa! PhD Grahani???
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